As the title says really! With my daughter, 22 months ago i had a 3rd degree tear. It didnt heal well and about 9 months ago i had a repair. Anyway im 5 months pregnant now and need to decide if i want a c sec or vaginal delivery with its potential problems (re tearing and incontinence). Of course i could have vaginal delivery and it all be fine. Just not sure if i want to risk it.
I really enjoyed my first delivery and didnt know i had torn until they told me after. Im really scared of a c sec, but equally as scared of baing incontinent in the future!
Thank you for your thoughts.

Sarah x