hhhmmm m+s it's a good theory, but I know myself, I'm sure in a few weeks time I'll be sneaking in early tests hoping Laujai won't catch me ;) Think I'll just have to donate money to the kiddlies and buy the tests

Gems- am so sorry af found you, and I do agree that it seems so much worse after mc.

Good luck tomorrow all those that are testing- think that its rocky and jodie? I did a cbd and it popped up pregnant 1-2 weeks and also did another superdrug cheapie and the line was darker than yesterdays so I am a little bit more relaxed today. Don't think I will tell my mum untill I see a cbd that says 3+ as I don't want to tempt fate!!

Good luck everybody!! xxx

Gemgems I'm sorry af got you, will cross my fingers and toes that this is your last disappointment.
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Hello fellow ttc'ers. Can you add me to the list for November 27th? I am due for AF on the 9th, but with all the bding I hope she doesn't show her face! Haha atleast not for the next 9 months. Blessings to everyone!!!!

Hi Guys

Tested this morning with superdrug cheapy and BFN.:cry:

Was really hoping to see that line there, no AF yet though, i suppose it's not over yet, but statistics say that over 80% of testers would have a BFP by now.

Oh well, must try to keep the PMA going.

Jodie xx

Sorry Jodie, you never know though - you might be one of the lucky 20%.
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Aw Jodie i used a clearblue+ this morning and BFN! Maybe my (.)(.) do this every month and i've just never noticed it before??!! have some tummy/back aches today for a bit and i did a bit last night too but they fluctuate. I know it's not over yet and i'm only 13dpo it's SO hard not to convince yourself! My trouble is i didn't test until 24dpo last time as i was blissfully unaware and hadn't had reached the point of my longet cycle so ahdn't a clue! Even then the line was clear but thin and not as dark as the control, maybe this is a good thing for me this time... i only ever tested the once though so now i have nothing to compare! bugger. xx

When i tested last time i was about 17/18 dpo before i had a faint line, because it was my 1st month off the pill i thought that AF was just betting back to normal, so didn't even think i was pg. I think that i am just so desp to get pg that i have convinced myself that i am somehow. Just feel so confused at the mo and just wish i could know one way or another. (I know we all probably feel the same)

I am sooooo impatient!

Jodie xx

OK so 17/18 dpo is a lil while off yet, do you remember what brand test you used? I'm trying to keep the PMA up but it's really hard! I'm on constant knocker watch and hoping it holds off at least until after work so i can be gutted at home and not have to try and put on a brave face! I'm prob going to have to wait until almost xmas to try again as didn't get peaks until cd34+35 this time even though i got highs from cd26. I realy feel like AF is on her way now :-( xx

Jodie- no AF is a good sign! U may just have a shy bean. Don't stress yourself out about it too much (I know its easier said than done!).

Rocky- I think clearblue + aren't as sensitive as superdrug cheapies and you are still 2 days away from testing date so don't be too disheartened. I still feel like AF is on her way so don't worry about that too much.

Come on girls- lets keep up the PMA!! You girls said the same to me when I was waivering and you all kept me going xx

Well i used on that we get at work to begin with - these are basically the ebay diagnostic cheapies (the dip strip kind) and cos i got a line on that - not as dark as the control line then i went and got a CBD and it said 2-3 on it as i was testing at 4 1/2 weeks i think - will try and hold out for sun now if no AF will be CD 31 then(15dpo) - just hoping so much matey.

yeah i'm going to try and hold off til sun as well now Jodie. Shall we test together if no AF's???

Mrs Pie's the last week i've had the whole achey thing going on as i did last time but last night and this morning they were a bit sharper and more like proper AF cramps... Though still nothing and still getting CM... How do yours feel if you don't mind me asking? the cramps/aches that is... i don't remember them being as strong as this last time... xx

cramps have subsided a bit now but they did feel like af cramps- not sharp but a definite ache. Sorry I can't be more specific. But I was so sure that af was on her way I even put a pad in before I went to the gym on tuesday as I expected to come on at any moment. The next day I got my bfp! xx

Hi ladies

How are we all today?
Gem im sorry AF found you hun, I agree I think it is harder after a mc cause even tho your thrilled you dont get that same excitement as you did with your 1st ever BFP.

L&N I can completley relate to how your feeling sweetie were both eactly a ear trying with 1 too many mc under our belt, I think we deserve some good news soon, thats wonderful about your sis & remember your still in with a chance this cycle so you could both be sharing these happy experiences together.
Rocky & Jodie goodluck for when you test together, how about a live test?? I love them so exciting!!

M&S & mrsP how are you both?

I dropped my man to the airport this morning he's working away in Dubai for 10 days ;'( cry. We checked his bags in & went for breakfast together until he had to go through, I miss him already, almost had a little cry at the airport too, you know eyes welled up but no blubbing LOL, I went with him last year but cause of pooch & finances it wasnt feesible this time round. At least I have Roxy & you lovelies to keep me occupied this week.

Anyone got any nice plans for the wkend? xx

Hi ladies

How are we all today?
Gem im sorry AF found you hun, I agree I think it is harder after a mc cause even tho your thrilled you dont get that same excitement as you did with your 1st ever BFP.

L&N I can completley relate to how your feeling sweetie were both eactly a ear trying with 1 too many mc under our belt, I think we deserve some good news soon, thats wonderful about your sis & remember your still in with a chance this cycle so you could both be sharing these happy experiences together.
Rocky & Jodie goodluck for when you test together, how about a live test?? I love them so exciting!!

M&S & mrsP how are you both?

I dropped my man to the airport this morning he's working away in Dubai for 10 days ;'( cry. We checked his bags in & went for breakfast together until he had to go through, I miss him already, almost had a little cry at the airport too, you know eyes welled up but no blubbing LOL, I went with him last year but cause of pooch & finances it wasnt feesible this time round. At least I have Roxy & you lovelies to keep me occupied this week.

Anyone got any nice plans for the wkend? xx

ooohhhh yeah a live test would be fun! and i'd be 15dpo then...

aw laujai i would've bawled my eyes out! lol, i'm sure 10 days will fly by espesh with that adorable lil rascal to keep u entertained! not doing anything major this weekend unfortunately as hubby is working, so will be cleaning tomorrow am, mum's coming over tomorrow pm and in the eve we're going to my dads firework display. not sure about sunday yet. xx

Hi laujai, I'm exactly the same when my hubby goes away- but luckily the most he goes for is a few days at a time. Your roxy will keep you company and act as a lovely hot water bottle when you are feeling cold and lonely.

Well we moved into an apartment yesterday, so am no longer living in a hotel room- wohoo!! the apartment needs a good clean but at least that gives me something to do whilst hubby is working.
Off to watch the footy tomoro then hubby has sunday and monday off- not sure what to do. We are in the lanacashire area so any suggestions would be greatly appreciated!!
xx

hi all - i'm up for testing on sun with fmu - normally get woken at about 6.30 - 7am by lil man!!!! always try to stay in bed until i'm bursting to pee on testing days!!!!!! by 7.30 am my results should be on!

I've got achy stomach more today which makes me think af is on way but i never get stomach ache before AF usually, i suppose it could be different after MC & ERPC.

Laujai - i know it sucks when OH goes away, luckly mine doesn't very often , but he has been working alot of weekends recently so it's just me and Noah most of the time at the mo, when he is at home he is so tired bless him that he is falling alseep for 9-9.30 - it has taken him some serious persuasion to BD this month!! (sorry tmi)

Rocky, like Mrs P says - we must try to keep the PMA going, it's not over until the wicked witch sings!!!!

Jodie xx

PS - sorry she got you gemgems and Mrs P glad about your apartment but not from lancs area so no suggestions i'm sorry xx

i keep wondering too if my AF might be a bit odd after my mc but last month i hardly got any pains and espesh not for the last week on the lead up to that time! So keeping my fingers crossed! So are we both going to try really hard to behave tomorrow Jodie? i almost didn't today but knew i'd regret it if i didn't but i collected my fmu until i was about ready for work and then did it.

Sorry MrsP i'm from cornwall so no ideas this end! xx