Morning ladies! Hope you are all well.

Glenns - I'm sorry to hear you're out for this month hun. Try keep your head up - easier said than done I know! I also know now about the POAS thing lol - how daft am I?!

Rainbow - How are you getting on today? I know loads of people trick the monitor but I'm that daft I'd probably mess it up if I did it lol.

Moon&Stars - It's funny, I thought that too. I just made sure I got up in time to do it but I was up during the night (3.30am) and did it then anyways.

Broody - Hey! How are you getting on chick?

Well my latest is all good - I think! 1st High on Friday, 2nd High on Saturday, 1st PEAK (WOOHOO!) on Sunday and another Peak today. Is that ok?

We BD on Saturday morning and last night so far. I know I missed Friday night but DH was too tired :( So was I though so I wasn't too fussed.

Going to try and BD again tonight but I don't know how DH will feel about that. He says he doesn't want it to be a chore (not saying that it's a chore to have sex with me obviously, he just wants it to be natural and not under any pressure to do it). Don't really know how to get round this one tonight...... I know what he means though - I don't really want to do it either unless I'm in the mood so I'll see what happens tonight.

This is all so stressful girls!

Hope you're all ok!

Morning! Hope everyone is all good!

I'm back from our weekend away, but really frustrated as I've still not had my peak this month. Last month I had it on CD20 but today is CD23 and still on highs.

Now I know I shouldn't, but this morning the test lines on my stick were identical, I really expected to get my peak. Maybe tomorrow eh? We're still bding every other day just incase though.

(EPP - congrats on getting your peaks, it's so exciting isn't it). xx

Morning Chicky!

Thanks hun - how was your weekend away apart from the BDing ;) I look at the lines all the time too - bad I know. I reckon you'll get a Peak tomorrow going by what you're saying!

xxx

Morning everyone!

Thanks for the advice Broody - I agree, I doubt that the little monster would know the clocks have gone back, so I'm treating this month's window at 5am - 11am. On cd3 today - really looking forward to seeing that little picture of a testing stick! Hubby is very interesting in it too - he keeps asking questions about how it works and how many highs and peaks and stuff I expect to get. Love him.

So this cycle is kind of a test run - we aren't trying this month, so I will keep all my limbs crossed for everyone else to get their BFP in the next few weeks!

Have a lovely day.

xxSara

The weekend was good thanks EPP, it was a friends wedding. I only had a couple of glasses of champagne and still felt like I had a hangover all day yesterday, I must be getting old. Hope you had a good weekend too.

Fingers crossed that you're right and i'll get my peak tomorrow. xx

Moonandstars - Even though you're not trying you might just get that BFP this month too so fingers crossed for you as well!

Chicky - Lovely! I love going to weddings. I got married in June and my Wedding Album arrived yesterday and it's brought it all back! Wish I could do it again tomorrow!

Tell me about it though - I only need to drink one bottle of WKD (I'm not a big drinker and this is the only thing I like the taste of lol) and I'm like "Hellllloooo!" lol.

I'm sure you will get your peak soon though, if not tomorrow, the next day :)

Morning ladies, TBH I'm not feeling so great at the moment, I've still not had my oeak on CD16 even though I've been getting highs since CD7, I'm just so worried that I'm not ovulating and that's why I've been getting BFN. I'm sorry to put a dampner on things, but I'm just so worried. I've got a friends wedding today and I'm not even excited - so unlike me. As we're away, I'm on my mobile so may take a while to reply to anything xxx

Oh Rainbow I know exactly what you mean - if you look a few pages back you'll see that I was totally stressing about not getting a high until day 17 (I'm on a 32+ day cycle) and then I got 2 in a row then 2 peaks in a row - so far (Day 20 today),

It does make you go on a total downer as I was exactly the same. I didn't believe it would ever come and it did so please try and think positive - That's a cheek coming from me as I was exactly the same but mine did come, just like everyone said.

Big hugs - you'll be fine I promise

xxx

Hi rainbow

PLEASE dont be down and let it ruin today.... CD16 isnt very far along at all! Please just be patient and relax... and keep BDing as much as you can in the meantime.

CD26 for me today girls... AF is due next Tues,,, so just over a week to go,,, and this is where i start to get down coz i think i should start feeling "something" and nope, nada, nothing, big fat zero. Fingers crossed still though hey?!

Where's Pickle? I need to read back over the posts and see when she's due on... think it's this Thursday isnt it???? xx

Hey again girls - I'm putting off tidying up the garden today!

Hope you have a lovely day today rainbow - worrying about your peak won't make it appear any faster!

And Edin - I would be soooooo amused if I got my bfp this month - we are still using protection so it would be a total accident, and hubby doesn't believe that people can get pregnant accidentally so it would be worth it just for the look on his face!

Should really go and tidy the garden..........................

Awww, thanks ladies. I'm feeling litTle better to be honest - thinks it to do with the few glasses of bucks fizz that I've had. I'm going to keep on BD and just see what happens. You all sound full of PMA which is great! xxx

Evening all!! I must post more often i always have so much to catch up on haha but i havent had much to report, no symptoms whatsoever and that bloody 'm' is flashing at me!!! Does the monitor really think that us ttc obsessed women dont know that AF is due any day now??!!! I dont need reminding!!! Am due on thursday, pretty sure she'll arrive, im sure my CM was everso slightly tinged with a bit of pink/brown...(sorry TMI!) had to turn the light on to check!! Everyone around me seems to be pregnant, or just given birth, theres babies and bumps everywhere! Doesnt help working in a chemist!! So feeling a bit low about all this ttc malarky...it feels like its taking so long, even OH said the other day we've been trying for ages, but its only been 3 full months of properly trying after my MMC/ERPC. The first few months after it were pretty tough, and although we said we'd try again straight away it took a while for us to get things back on track in the bedroom. Must think positive tho....xx

Pickle I know just what you mean! We started talking about having a baby in February, my erpc was at the end of September, and we will start trying after my next af, probably the beginning of December. So all in all it feels like we have been trying for nearly a year. It really can be so frustrating; especially as the whole world seems to be pregnant. BUT WE WILL GET THERE!!!

We've been 'talking' about it agessss! In the beginning we werent really trying and i was amazed i fell pregnant! I know i can get pregnant, and i know my OH can get me pregnant, and i know we're BDing at the right times and im ovulating so why hasnt it happened grrrr!! Just frustrated at the mo and a bit down, my close work friend is pregnant (she mc 4 weeks b4 me) and i would of been due in 4 weeks time, think thats why im feeling like this. I'll feel fine once AF has been and gone, i'll be feeling all excited again!! Thanks moonandstars, i didnt realise u had been through the same xx

Morning ladies, Aww Pickle, hope you're feeling better this morning, people really din't tell us how hard this TTC malarky is, think PMA! Well I'm on CD17 today ......and I got my peak! I can not tell you how excited and happy I am! Now does that mean I'm ovulating now, or will do? Either way some BD is in order! We're still away so on phone at mo, so I'll catch properly with you all later xxx

Pickle, I know how you feel. I fell pregnant after only 3 months of trying and then had a MMC in March of this year. Took me ages to physically and mentally get back to anywhere near being normal, but we have effectively been trying since March and nothing. It upsets me as it was so easy last time. It total, including the MC, we have been trying for over a year now. And I know what you mean about everyone being pregnant. Since my MC, 6 people very close to me all announced they were pregnant....arghhhh. Anyway, we will all get our BFP's. Like you say, we know we are OVing, we are BDing at the right time. I think I might be out this month though. PMT reared it's ugly head yesterday, which DH got the full brunt of. I normally get this a week before AF, so I will be expecting her to arrive next Monday:-(

Morning ladies!

Hey Rainbow! Check you getting your Peak!!! Whoop whoop! Get down to some BDing now missues!

Josie & Pickle - I'm so sorry to hear that. I haven't been through that so I can't begin to imagine how hard it is but I'm sure that BFP is just waiting round the corner for you x

Back down to high for me today - so this month we have BD on 2nd High (I only had 2) and again on the first and second Peaks (I only had 2 of those as well) and that's us. I'm more than happy with that - I'm sure some of you will be reading that going "you should keep doing it!" but honestly, we are knackered lol. DH says he is now running on empty lol. As we don't usually have sex as often as that in such a short period, it's a huge step for us so we're really happy with it. If we don't get a BFP this month, then cest la vie, we'll keep trying till we hopefully do. I'm obviously saying this now....wait till I'm nearly due or AF arrives and I'll be bawling my eyes out lol.

Feel really positive today - don't think we will get a BFP this month because it's our first proper month of trying, but I'm feeling positive about the whole thing in general which makes a change. Sure, I'm going to lose the plot on more than one occasion TTC, but today I feel quite good so here's hoping that feeling lasts. Even just for this month lol.

xxx

Morning!

EPP - I got my peak today. Hoorahh! So relieved as I didn't think it was going to happen this month. Looks like my cycle will be 4 or 5 days longer though. Yey! xx

Morning Chicky! Woo!!!! That's brilliant news - told ya ;) Do you feel better now?

xxx

Yes much better thank you. I was beginning to panic a little yesterday as you may have noticed. So you're into your 2ww now, sounds like you did all you can this month so I would be hopeful! xx