Hia not sure if anyone will remember me from baby i havent been on in a while started full time job last month and its chaotic at the moment lol

Lily has been for her first appointment with cardiologist for her murmour , he thinks its a hole in the heart im a bit devastated to be honest, just wondered if anyone has any prior experience?

also can i be really nosey and ask how much everyone pays for a full month at nursery at the moment were paying 650 a month

xxx

hi im recently new myself and have a 2yr old son rio.

my little sister had a heart murmour and was later found to have a hole in her heart. the doctors said it was a small hole and should close by itself (which it did thankfully) she was also found to have three chambers in her heart where as everyone else has two, but said this wouldnt affect her. i know how worried you must be but please try not to think the worst. my mum did this and nearly drove herself into the ground thinking of surgery and such. you need to try and take every day as it comes. (easier said than done i know)

but i wish you all the best and have my fingers crossed for you xxx

I had an old school friend who had a hole in her heart, which never closed sadly. She has never been affected by it to be honest, never stopped her doing anything: partys hard, jetset round the world, drank, ate, smoked everything - you'd never know!

I haven't any personal experience of hole in the heart but as a teacher have come across children with them and as the other posts have said they live normal lives.

Re nursery fees £650 sounds great! At my daughter's nursery a full month is £915. Luckily Darcy doesn't go full time and we also get a term time only discount otherwise we would never be able to afford it!

hi babe im keely daisys mum i met you at the west mid meet. im sorry to hear about lillys health problems bless her you must be worried sick but although ive no personal experience i have heard lots of positive stories about this. welcome to toddler x

hi hun, welcome to toddler!
sorry i have no experience with hole in the heart but i know my ex had this when he was born and i don't think it's ever affected him!
£650 per month sounds fab, i can only dream! my nursery fees have just gone up to £835 per month full time!!!

[Modified by: Mum0f2 on October 09, 2009 11:12 PM]

Hi hun just wanted to say welcome to toddler,
Sorry i have no experience with hole in the heart or nursery fees xx

my sister had a hole in her heart and it closed on its own xx

thankyou for all the replies!

cant belive how fast time has flown seems like yesterday i first posted in baby!!

xx