Hiya
Just having one of those nights when I am really missing my girl although she was born sleeping so to speak. I am thinking about going to see a medium or spiritualist but if nothing was said about her I would be so gutted. Silly but I want to talk to her to tell her how much she is loved and I need to know she is ok ?

Its not silly, I had been having thoughts of doing the same thing but know it too early for me just now. Just try to go to one who is good. I've gone to many in the past who I think must have been making things up!
I hope you get the message your looking for x

Hi WL - First off, I am so sorry to hear about your precious little girl. What you said about seeing a medium struck a chord with me. My younger brother passed away suddenly and unexpectedly in his sleep in Dec and this is something that my mum is trying at the moment. Her first experience, last week, wasn't successful as (as you fear) my brother was not mentioned at all. This upset her incredibly BUT she has arranged to see a medium next week who has a very good reputation in our area. I'm going with her and really hoping this is more of a positive experience. Like wooly says, I guess we just need to choose carefully.

I think we all just have to do what we need to do to get ourselves through. My dad would not entertain the idea but mum is hoping it wil bring her back closer to her lovely son, if only for a short while. I'm thinking of you my lovely x

Thanks Wooly and KayeCee. you have said what, deep down, I have been concerned about - not finding a genuine medium and I am not sure I could handle the silence if no one came forward at all. Perhaps it is too soon.

I have seen some piccies of some twin girls tonight and just sent me into floods of tears.

its amazing how strong we are though I suppose, to go through this kind of loss and keep going ?

Anyway, thanks again. xx

Absolutely. It doesn't get easier, I think, unfortuanately, the feelings just become more familiar and so maybe a a little easier to deal with in that respect. If I'd've been told this time last year what my poor mum would have to go through I would've thought 'She can't survive that'. But she has. Because she's had to. The human spirit really is amazing xxx

Hi winelover, haven't spoken u for a while, just wanted to send u a biiig hug! :-) I too am concidering meeting with a spiritualist but am not certain if who to go to... Hope u are doing ok. U are very brave hunni... Xx

Hi Winelover,

I know exactly how you feel. I wouldn't be able to see a medium as my husband would not approve as his only experience of this sort of thing is Colin Fry and Derek Acorah! I did get my tarot cards recently and it gave me a bit of comfort. I hope that this gives you comfort too.