i have just found out i am pregnant after a mc in may, i have done two test now and have booked to c midwife on the 6th, i am so scared this time, i am finding it hard

Hi Jenny

Welcome to the forum and congratulations on your recent BFP!

I really hope everything goes well for you this time. It is a very scary time being pregnant again after a loss. But remember that statistics are on your side that everything will be perfectly fine this time and know that there's always someone here to listen who understands

Are you going to ask your mw for an early scan? I know many ladies on here have found it helpful to do this rather than having to wait for the 12 week scan - those first few months can feel like forever!

Love NN 15+6 xxx

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yes i think i will thanks 4 that am 5 weeks on thu i mc at 6half weeks last time, i even hate going to the loo ;-( i dont feel as pregnant this time i could tell straight a way last time, but the signs are not as strong this time but i guess that cold be good ? we are not telling anyone this time, well not yet

Hi Jenny,
Congratulations on your BFP, what exciting news.
I really hope that you have a super sticky one this time. It is perfectly natural to worry more after a MC we all know exactly how you are feeling right now as we too have all been there so dont worry that it is only you with these emotions beacuse it really isn't. There is always someone here with some kind words of encouragement or advise, which i have personally found so reassuring.
Like Nattynik says ask for an early scan as I am sure it will help put your mind at rest.
Congrats again.

Leigh-Anne x

thank u am there nxt week so i will i am 5 weeks now

Congratulations on your bfp. It is really worrying being pg again after a mc. We all understand how you ae feeling. Def ask for an early scan and if you are worried at all get on the phone to your midwife.

Gemm x
13+4

Congratulation on your BFP!

I think everyone has already said what I wanted to say, but wanted to welcome you anyway.

I agree with getting an early scan, although I went for one a bit too early and there was no heartbeat yet (i have since seen the hb), but still it helps countdown the weeks until the next one.

The thing I like best about the early scans is the confirmation that you are pregnant. I don't know if its just me but I struggled to accept what was going on when the only thing telling me before was a line on a stick :-)

Sorry waffling now. Anyway, we're all here if you need us.

Chocky