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*Jellytots*
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Posted : Jul 06, 2009 1:33:14 PM
Subject : Is it ok if I join you?

I had a very early miscarriage this weekend - 5 weeks i think or possibly a chemical pregnancy. Is it ok if i join you? Think we will try to ttc again once the bleeding has stopped but I'm going to try and have a very relaxed approach towards it. Just trying to get head round that its okay to be upset even though it was so early. Thanks ladies x

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roisine
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Posted : Jul 06, 2009 2:41:53 PM

of course you can,had a chem preg in may (mmc in dec 08) so know its the strangest thing.dont worry you have plenty support here.dont know how id still be married without these lovely ladies.xxxxxx

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Posted : Jul 06, 2009 4:09:38 PM

Hello love,
Firstly big hugs!!

I havnt officially 'joined' this forum yet, but just wanted to message you and say I was in an identical situation to you-I had a very early miscarraige (4+6, I was due in Feb) and it does take time to get your head around things. Time does help-so I hope you feel better soon.
Your not alone!
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MrsTIL

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Posted : Jul 06, 2009 4:12:28 PM

Hey honey,
Of course it is ok!
Ive said in your other thread that i'm so so sorry to hear about you mc, it doesn't matter how early it is it is an extremely emotional thing to happen to anyone.
I had a mmc at 8 weeks back in September and it's heartrenching, only now do hubby and i feel ready to ttc again, although i wish now i had got back in the saddle right away rather than leave it till now.
My email is open if you wish to chat furthur and a huge huge hug to you!
xxxxxxxxxxxx

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kristen77

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Posted : Jul 06, 2009 5:31:30 PM

Welcome!
Sorry to hear of your loss - regardless of how far along you are it is still a devestating thing to go through.
Take care and chat soon,
Kristen xx

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KTDaisy

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Posted : Jul 06, 2009 8:26:02 PM

Sorry you've had to join us but as I'm sure you know everyone is very supportive on here, even if it was early days its still a very upsetting experience so look after yourself
take care
Daisyx

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milliepop
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Posted : Jul 06, 2009 9:59:59 PM

hi sorry you've had to join us. i had early mc in may (4-5weeks) and although i was ok at the time as it was early, it hit me a few weeks later. a loss is a loss at any point you can feel however you want to feel. good luck with ttc again when you are ready xxx

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Posted : Jul 06, 2009 10:27:17 PM

thankyou so much for the welcome, i am really comforted by what you have all said and I have also had a look through some of your older posts and understand that you all know how i am feeling - thank you again for your support xx

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Posted : Jul 07, 2009 8:30:36 AM

Hi JT and welcome, even tho I'm sad you have to join us here. We've all been there so know how you will probably be feeling. I don't think it matters how early a mc happens, what you lose is still the same to the parents.
Take care xx

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Radkad78
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Posted : Jul 07, 2009 1:39:09 PM

Welcome hunny and it is sad you are here to join but you are of course very welcome.
Huge huge hugs to you xxxx
An early MC is still a loss and you will still grieve and you've come to the right place in the 6 weeks since my MC I have found this forum and the other Eptopic/MC one a huge comfort and support - I hope it is for you too hunny - take care xxx

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Angela+James
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Posted : Jul 07, 2009 8:49:05 PM

Hi, I'm so sorry to hear about your loss and that you have had to join us but welcome. I had an early mc too at 5-6 weeks and however early it is, we have still all lost our little babies (ours were just a bit smaller).

Sending you big hugs, and good luck for when you feel ready to ttc again, xxx

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littleminx
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Posted : Jul 08, 2009 12:40:13 PM

Hi JT sorry to hear about your loss, like the others say it doesnt matter how far along you were it doesnt make it any less painful.
all the best of luck for when you feel ready to TTC again Luc xxx

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