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hun can i just say without you being offended... why where you careless when you didnt want to ttc till Sept? and why is two months later such a differance to you anyway? if your pregnant now then whats the differance compaired to Sept? i dont understand, anyway i hope you get the result you want and if your not pregnant then maybe with this feeling of being terrified is a sign that your not ready for a baby and you should hold off for another year or so to have time alone with hubby etc beofre you ttc. x

Hi Chocolate Muffin
I know you have deleted this post but I had just read it before you did.
I would like to say that it is perfectly normal to feel the way you do. TTC is scarey enough without it maybe happening before you meant it to! Its a scarey but happy time and i really hope that if you are pg, you will be really happy and look forward to a healthy 9 months and a little treasure at the end of it.
Please dont worry too much, what a lovelt way to have conceived anyway on a beautiful holiday :-)
Just let nature take its course and if you are pg, congratulations and if not, good luck for September when you officially start trying.
Take good care of yourself, love bluebird xxxx

Thanks bluebird, I was worried that my post may have irritated some people. You have made me feel better. It's not that I don't feel ready to have a baby, it's the pregnancy part that worries me - I'm a bit of a wuss and hate hospitals.

The reason why we had planned to wait until Septemer is that I was anxious about going abroad while I was pg (holiday to Cyprus booked for sept), incase anything happened, I would feel safer at home. The reason we weren't overly careful on our honeymoon is we just thought 'sod it', what will be will be. We have spent the last 7 years working hard and being sensible to make sure everything is right for when we have a family and on a few of occations I just gave in. It's not that I'm irresponsible or wreckless, it just felt right.

Thanks again.;\)

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Hun i didnt mean to offend you , i just didnt understand why two months made such a big differance. Have you talked to your hubby about being scared of being pregnant? it is a real phobia for some women and its not something you should worry about alone. big hugs babe, you will know what is right for you hun, i hope you get the result you want and try not to worry too much, you will be fine hun. xxxxxxxxxx

Perhaps if you are pg some hypnotherapy might help you overcome your fears.
H.xxx

Hi I read your post yesterday as well and we had been trying and when I discovered I was pregnant it really scared me and although I was really happy I remember thinking OMG do I really want this, it is intial reaction and it is normal to feel this way, I am almost 6 months pregnant now and sometimes I still feel scared but now its more will I be a good mum. Dont worry you are not alone on how you feel on this and I am sure whatever result you get you will be happy xxxxxx