Posted : Jul 04, 2009 2:00:05 AM
Subject : Jealous toddler - any advice???
Hi Ladies,
I haven't been on here for ages because my computer has not been working!
Anyway, I'm really glad to see how everyone is doing, and I still don't know how to put a photo on so if anyone could help, that would be great.
My daughter Codi, who willbe 4 in August, is a great cjild, but in the last couple of months she has become really jealous of Abi and her behaviour has become really bad. I feel as though I'm always shouting at her and she is now having tantrums!!! which she has never done (I thought I was lucky!!!).
Anyway, I still try to spend time and do things with her but I feel it's never good enough! She always seems to want me to play with her or give her a cuddle when I'm feeding or changing Abi. I know this is a jealous thing but I'm really feeling guilty and I don't know how to deal with this!
For a while there I was giving Abi less time that I should and I felt guilty about that!!! I really just want to find a happy medium. If anyone has any suggestions I would really appreciate it.
Ellen xx