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Posted : Jul 02, 2009 1:03:28 PM
Subject : Have we done enough?

I am really stressing this month. We BD on lows then twice on my first high, once on my second, half on my 3rd (most on outside rather than in, won't go into details as tmi) nothing on my 4th high and then once each on my peak yesterday and today. Do you think we have done enough. I am panicking about the two days of nothing just before my peak. What do you all think? xxx

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Posted : Jul 02, 2009 1:10:02 PM

I think you have bd plenty hun, i personally think that its the two peaks and possibly the day after which are the most important days! Good luck xxxx

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Posted : Jul 02, 2009 1:12:58 PM

Thanks debbie. I've never been this stressed before. Will make sure we BD tomorrow so that is covered too. xxx

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Posted : Jul 02, 2009 1:26:30 PM

I bet nobody ever told you that ttc would be so stressful did they??
Dont worry hun, youll get used to it! lol (although i hope you wont be here long enough to get used to it) Fingers crossed for you! xxxx

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Posted : Jul 02, 2009 1:33:03 PM

I know. I spent so long trying not to get pregnant. You just take for granted that it will happen as soon as you want it to. This is month 8 for us now. Really hoping to get into the March forum. Fingers crossed for us all. xxx

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Posted : Jul 02, 2009 1:52:44 PM

Katie, I really hope you get your BFP soon. And I hope you have done enough this month as that is pretty much what we have done (although the more out than in incident was on one of my peaks!!!! Damn me for trying to change positions too soon!) I think that sounds plenty. Do it tomorrow too to cover yourself as you say.

Hopefully we'll both be in the March forum together xxx

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Posted : Jul 02, 2009 1:52:50 PM

the cycle i got my BFP we only BD on both peaks and not before like previous months

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Posted : Jul 02, 2009 2:27:56 PM

Hi Wizzie. The changing position was sort of what happened to us. Would have been funny at any other time of the month! Hoping you get your BFP this month too. xxx

Hi piggypops. Thanks for that. I feel a little less stressed after reading your reply. Hope you and baby are doing well. xxx

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Posted : Jul 02, 2009 3:21:32 PM

drs suggeste every 2-3 days so i think you have done plenty. it's interesting looking at the chart gallery on FF.

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Posted : Jul 02, 2009 3:55:10 PM

Thanks Lamby, will check it out. xxx

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Posted : Jul 02, 2009 6:20:36 PM

Hi, can I just ask, are you all using CBFM?

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Posted : Jul 02, 2009 6:33:41 PM

hi lixxybuffe,

yep, I'm using CBFM which is where the lows, highs and peaks come from as opposed to positive and negative opks.

xxx

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Posted : Jul 02, 2009 10:38:57 PM

Thinking of buying a CBFM, giving the opks a try this month 1st. Hubby thinks we shouldnt use anything and just hope for the best, but I want peace of mind that Im ovulating and that we are bd at the right time.

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Posted : Jul 03, 2009 8:04:45 AM

the CBFM is great lizzybuffe. You kind of feel like it does the hard work for you (still doesnt stop me stressing though!) I never got +ve opks so wasnt sure I was ov but this is my first month of CBFM and it gave me my peaks!

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Posted : Jul 03, 2009 1:38:15 PM

Well that is it. Had my last high this morning. Made sure we BD before work and will try and get one in tonight for good measure. Looks like i am now in 2ww. Going on my hols on Tuesday so hopefully this wil be a distraction. xxx

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Posted : Jul 03, 2009 2:54:35 PM

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Thinking of buying a CBFM, giving the opks a try this month 1st. Hubby thinks we shouldnt use anything and just hope for the best, but I want peace of mind that Im ovulating and that we are bd at the right time.

We had that attitude at first. Not saying it'll take months for you guys but we are on our 2nd month of using cbfm and i think it's really good.

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