So i woke up today at 6am (im an earlybird, hubby is a night owl lol) and immediately POAS (BFN but AF not due for four more days), logged onto BE and began obsessing and symptom spotting like its going out of fashion... Why do we do this to ourselves? I broke up from work yesterday for 10 days half term so enough now... No more obsessing and stressing and try to enjoy being off work for a bit. I live about 20 seconds away from the beach (you can see it from my lounge!) and so, at 7am, decided to go for a swim in the sea. I've lived in this flat for over a year and its the first time I've done it but OH MY GOD. It really helped put things in perspective. I was the only one on the beach, the sun was sparkling on the water and it was amazing. So my new plan is to do the swm every morning while im on holiday, spring clean the flat and then spend the next ten days just relaxing and catching up with my friends. No more obsessing (I hope!). There's no need to reply, just writing it all down helps me to stay motivated lol xx

Great attitude!! I wish I lived where you live! I'm so jealous. You will get your BFP soon !! You def tested too early !

Oooh I'm jealous!! Where do you live?-sorry very nosey!
I love the attitude and hope it helps you to relax.
H.xxx

Sounds fantastic! deffo enjoy your holiday. where do you live? did you swim in the sea in the UK? must have been FREEZING!

I live in Swanage Dorset, you can see the Isle of Wight from our beach lol. It wasn't too cold, it was lush. Amazing feeling being only person on the beach. PMA today I think x

I live in Swanage Dorset, you can see the Isle of Wight from our beach lol. It wasn't too cold, it was lush. Amazing feeling being only person on the beach. PMA today I think x

Wow that sounds amazing. I love swimming in the sea... however bristol channel doesnt quite have the same effect! lol Sorry about the BFN... but its not over until AF sings! xx

Oh I am so jealous, I wish I could do that!
Best of luck for this cycle x

oh that sounds amazing mrs snelling :) what a wonderful start to the day! You are so lucky to be that close to the sea...all that fresh sea air :) there is nothing quite like it....
Good luck for this cycle too....have everything crossed for you x

Thank you xx

wow, such fab PMA and definitely the best way to deal with the dreaded 2WW

good luck

x

Sounds like a great plan MrsS! xxx