hi kayecee,

so sorry to hear that you have had this news. as others have said, at least you can now dive into to tackling the problem with the doctors help. while no-one wants to have to go through ivf, i truly think it is an amazing thing. my colleague just had it and got pregnant first go. she said it wasn't bad at all and now she's having her longed for baby.

i still think that you have a chance of conceiving naturally though. it only takes one single sperm to do it and maybe if your man looks after himself and is super healthy one of the little fellas will be up to the job?

thinking of you and sending you hugs xxx

Sorry to hear your news KayCee, Big hugs and lets hope IVF will bring you the BRF you've been longing for. Take care xxx

Sorry to hear your news KayCee, Big hugs and lets hope IVF will bring you the BRF you've been longing for. Take care xxx

lots of hugs for you honey. i'm sorry to hear your news. try to be positive though and keep at it. xx

How are you feeling today KayeCee?

Your poor DH, he must feel crappy about this news, i feel sorry for the men becuas elike you say, they can't really talk to their friends, online or in real life about TTC, its just not something they do.

I hope you are taking care of yourselves xxx

Thanks for all the messages girls. Things are pretty rubbish. We need to have a big talk - at the moment we have the whole elephant in the room thing going on!

I had a long chat with my mum and told her everything and when I saw her today she told me that her and my dad would pay for IVF if we had any trouble getting it or if the wait was too long. That made me cry buckets but it reminded me what lovely family we are lucky to have around us. I hope you are all okay - I'm really sorry if I am neglecting you all a bit and not replying to your posts. Posy - have a fab holiday! I'm guessing you're going soon?! xxxxxxxx

Hi Kaycee, have come in late to this but wanted to say how sorry I am that things weren't as positive as you'd hoped. Your family sound lovely and I'm sure your poor oh is just trying to digest the information too. I know two couples who have had IVF for low sperm count/motility and they both successfully went on to have IVF. One couple had twins and the other had a little girl and are now expecting their second child next month through IVF again. You will get there, sending you a big hug.
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hey kaycee,

i havent been on for a few weeks but laujai said for me to looko nat your thread as we just got dh's sa results back and they werent good either.

98%abnormal and very very low, he also has to go back for anotheer test. the doc said that it only takes one good sperm to do the job you still have 2%. but also the abnormal ones can still fertilise but they are more likely to cause early miscariage which explains what happened a few months back.

we only found out yest but in a way i feel free. i have gotten rid of my opk's an we are now officially not ttc i am forgeting cd and dpo's as there is nothing we can do naturally,

hubby is really okay with it and so am i, but we are just taking a rest until all tests come back.

i also found out that if you have a child already which i do from a previous relationship, they put others without children before you so if we did want any help we may have to pay.

i hope you are okay with it all. and i am sorry for your sad news but there is hope as the reason they have to do another test is that speerm are made every 73 days and there could have just been something wrong with that batch, things like a cold or any ilness can have an effect as well as other things.

sorry for going on but just wanted to say i know what your going through

good luck

Hi KayeCee

I am heading off tomorrow night but will be around on here tomorrow.

That's so nice of your parents to offer...hopefully you won't have to wait too long to get on the list for IVF. Do you think you will definitely have to go down that route?

Don't worry if you're too busy to reply, I'm sure you have lots on your mind at the moment

xxx

Hi KayeCee

Hope you are feeling alright today. Can't imagine what you must feel like right now. It's good to hear you have such a lovely, supportive family, that will make all the difference.

Perhaps some more positive light will be shed on this after your DH's second SA. If not, I hope the wait for IVF wont be long and you get the BFP you deserve.

xxx