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LilMrsAverage
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Posted : Jun 21, 2009 3:32:08 PM
Subject : .. I want another baby....

I had a Emergency C-Sec in may and am to wanting to start trying for another its unbelievable!

I do want to try for a VBAC next time - for those who have had another baby after a c sec how long did you wait x

Thanks

Judith x x

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Lemon Cupcake
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Posted : Jun 21, 2009 4:16:06 PM

They recommend a year to let things heal properly. 6 months at least because thats how long it takes for the muscles to heal underneath. The skin is the first to heal so apparences are deceptive. I would take to your doctor first and see what they think. I had a section 15 months ago today and I'm waiting til september before trying for no 2.

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LovingmybabyNbump
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Posted : Jun 21, 2009 6:35:07 PM

i was told to wait 6 months if i wanted a vbac but as long as my six week post birth scan was ok then straight away was fine for another section.x

we are currently almost 7 weeks with baby no 2 and my dd was born by emsc in july 08.xxx

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Posted : Jun 21, 2009 7:50:48 PM

Queen Bee - does everyone get a post birth scan? I'll be nearly 9 weeks at my 6 week check up!

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Team Blue aka doublebubble
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Posted : Jun 21, 2009 8:31:12 PM

Hi chick

I was told that whilst they say wait 12 months there is actually any real medical evidence which shows you are less likely to have a uterine tear after 12 months. There is evidence to show if you fall pg before in the first 12 weeks there is a tiny increased chance (1.04% according to the paper i was reading) of uterine tear.

I fell pg 8 months after my section and was allowed to try for a vbac. I ended up with another em sec and then fell when baby was 7 months and i am now 16 weeks, so this will be my third section.

So id say if you feel ready go for it, ps i have never had a post birth scan

xxDBxx

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Posted : Jun 21, 2009 8:44:55 PM

I was told by my consultant that 3 months is plenty time... Goodluck with whatever u decide! There does seem to be alot of varying advice, I'm sure your dr will tell you what is best for you as an individual x

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Posted : Jun 21, 2009 8:56:14 PM

DB - can I ask what your sections were for

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LovingmybabyNbump
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Posted : Jun 21, 2009 10:26:17 PM

Umm i assume so honey, its standard at my hospital. So ask your gp when you go, basically i had a letter through when baby was around 4 weeks saying my scan was 2 weeks later and my check was about 2 days later.

The risk is so small but they have to tell you about it.

I think if you are keen then go for it and goodluck,
We would of been pregnant much earlier if it wasnt for other complications.x

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Posted : Jun 22, 2009 8:55:54 PM

Sure ask anything.

I had twins first and had been in labour for 36 hours but was only 2-3cms dilated and i developed rapid onset pre eclampsia (basically my blood pressure went from normal to off the scale in a 30 minute period) then twin 1 became v distressed so em sec under GA.

Then with DS3 i was desperate for a vbac but 30 hour labour and only dilated again to 3 cm and then started to bleed heavily so they took me for another em section tho i dont class that as em sec as there wasnt the same rush it was much more dignified.

I would try again for a vbac but the consultants said i have an incompentent cervix so basically cld never successfully give birth but really glad i tried

Sorry its long

xxDBxx 16+1

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Posted : Jun 22, 2009 9:39:18 PM

I was told to wait 12 months so healed properly but it appears we've all been given different advice.
Did anyone else have a post birth scan - My GP didn't even look at my scar let alone anything else at my 6 week check up!!

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Posted : Jun 23, 2009 9:26:48 AM

No mine didnt even look at the scar, its crazy how different postnatal care can be

xxDBxx

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Posted : Jun 24, 2009 10:02:49 AM

Thats awful, my scar was checked most days(though it had healed within a week).
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Posted : Jun 24, 2009 3:32:47 PM

...my 6 week check isn't until 9 weeks!

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Posted : Jun 25, 2009 12:14:11 PM

I wasn't told anything about how long to wait before having another baby after my emcs! My daughter was born in Aug 08 by emcs and I'm now 13 weeks pregnant with my second.

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Posted : Jun 30, 2009 7:25:34 PM

i'm having the same thoughts too, altho not yet ds is only 14weeks lol. i wld like aother baby tho but i'm a bit scared about the birth again as last time did not go to plan, altho im not scared about having another em c section because i know they know what they're" doing (surgeons that is) and it was ever so calm in the operating room it was all the stuff that leads up to that point that i don't wanna repaet but then i do wanna try for a vbac.

i didn't have my postnatal check til 12weeks. they say its a 6-8week check and i was booked for the 8 weeks but they phoned on the day to cancel! grr! and the next they had available was 4 weeks later. it was only with a nurse who didn't check my scar or anything and when i said i felt really down she said i needed to see a doctor so all in all was pretty pointless appointment. if we do have another baby i wont bother with the 6-8week check i'll just see a gp instead as the nurse cldn't do anything other than take my blood pressure and check my weight (altho not sure why she needed to check my post birth weight, seemed abit of a pointless task to me as they didn't check it at all whilst i was pregnant) xx

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Posted : Jul 12, 2009 9:19:29 AM

I'm still waiting on my 6 week check up and gonna chat to them then about what they say the wait time is....

Gong to go to the doctors myself on monday and make an appointment! x

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Posted : Jul 21, 2009 9:32:23 PM

omg that is so wierd cos iwnt another i think its cos i miss haveing my bump. Even thow iv had 3 sectons i want another lol id do it again tomorrow but i got the implant just to make sure i dnt get broody to quick or if i do its tuff tittys for 3 yrs lol to let my body heal xx

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Posted : Jul 21, 2009 9:32:24 PM

omg that is so wierd cos iwnt another i think its cos i miss haveing my bump. Even thow iv had 3 sectons i want another lol id do it again tomorrow but i got the implant just to make sure i dnt get broody to quick or if i do its tuff tittys for 3 yrs lol to let my body heal xx

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