Hi ladies,

i'm unsure what to do at the mo me and partner have been together for three years and have a beautiful little boy together.

Things havent been going that great since just before he was born it started off with financial problems and now we've just become so distant, a few times we've nearly split.

I really miss my mates back home (we both live away from family and friends) and know if we split up i'd move nearer to them, But then my partner would rarely get to see my little boy. And thats the main thing thats makes me think should i stay and give it a go what should i do!!!!!!

Can you not both move nearer and then try again? support of family and friends does make a difference. sorry im not more help but didnt want to r n r

xxDBxx

thanks double bubble:) i think its over between us unfortunately we both used tolive in different parts of the country and both want to move back to where we used to live so trying to work out best way for partner to see son its all very amicable thank goodness!!

I'm so sorry this is happening. I think you sound as if you are both considering what is best for all three of you which is very grown up and responsible. Of course you want to be close to friends and family and so does he...thats normal and natural especially after a relationship ends or has been difficult. I am sure you can work out the best arrangments for all.
How far are your respective home towns? This could make a big difference overall.

My hubby knows if we broke up i would move home too and take baby (which is still on the way) with me. Problem is my home is the other side of the world. Luckily we are fine.....and touchwood continue to be.

Best of luck with what you decide and i hope that everything works out for the best for all three of you.
x