I cannot believe how selfish my partner is through my pregnancy It has been a big dissappointment.
I am 5 months pregnant and work full time., an so he does. We are both tecahers with similar stress...
Eg: I am stillthe one who cooks most of the days, even if he can cook! Recently he calls cooking to put a ready meal on the microwave that I obviously worry to eat cause it is not the best food to be given to a kid.Then he rushes to go thegym (who he does everyday) and dissappears for most of the evening. One day last week we agreed that he was going to cook dinner and when I got home, he had left with a note saying: h"Here is the meal for tonight. Love you". And all what he did was to take a packet of sih and chips out of the freezer, ..not even cooked it!

Then I cannot even feel comfortable bringing anyone home becauase he has made the sitting room his game/study room and it is always a big mess, really embarrasing. I have asked him to clean it up and make it the sitting room, and he promises to do it but he never does. So I am stuck on my own most of the time

This week he was three days of fwith a cold and he did not even bothered to cook or do the dishes one single day: could not find the time, but I had to do it after a long day working. Too sick for it? Well, not to go to his best mate to watch films two of the evenings?

I am totally disgusted. So dissappointed...he stress me out so much which is not good for the baby. I cannot help to get anxious and see a bleak future with a person that seemed to be different and turned out to be the biggest lazy untidy selfish pig in the planet. Then is the finance situation: I am able to save money but the only thing he does is spending so I cannot trust him in that department any longer either

The last drop: he started feeling sick on Monday but still went to the sauna in the gym and on the way back visit another colleguage and ended it up doing her dishes and helping the kid with homework I cannot believe that he would make the effort for other people but not with me.

I am seriously thinking of ditching him cause I donot trust him any longer and he has showed me he is not what I want as a partner. At least I will not be tense an pissed of all day. He is happy with the coming of the baby but I do not see myself in the picture, because I do not just wanta father for my kid but also a partner that is able to cope with the situation. All this is making me falling out of love

Sorry, but I need it to spit it out

Thanks

My goodness darling that seems really unfair! I would feel so hurt if my OH helped another woman out and left me doing it all myself. Have you tried actually sitting him down and telling him if he doesnt change your off? That might shock him into doing the right thing? Hope that helps xx