i had erpc juss before christmas .i have kids but this was supposed to be our mature know it all end of family child, know what i mean. for the first time i feel sooo ready to nurture, and im still just 37.i spent my youth with a baby and a college book either side. i remember when my eldest girl (over 16 now) was three months old and teething badly ,i had a biochem exam the next morning too!!! howd i do it.but i just feel cheated out of the last baby , not like i want a lot of kids just this last one. when i lost a nine weeks and erpc at eleven wweeks (out of hospital christmas eve) i was shattered. but hey i carried on but no luck yet. how did i get pregnant so quickly last time ,ie first month(i was always very fertile0 AND NOW IT SEEMS TO BE TAKING FOREVER. SORRY FOR RANT JUST MAD THAT AT 37 I MAY BE PAST IT GRRRRR

hun, im 38, and am certain that im pregnant again,

i already have two boys 13, 6 and fell pregnant on holiday last july, i miscarried at 11 weeks in october, i only have one overy and apparently this has always been the case!

after the miscarraige, i was told my rubella was very low, so had to have a mmr, was told shouldnt try for 3 months, that would bring me to end jan,

then a week later was told that the pregnancy was in fact molar, which meant that my hcg would have to be tested for 6 months to check the tumour had all gone, i got the all clear at the begininng of april

i was due to have the baby on 28th april, the day before my youngest 6th birthday. on monday, i took a test, and got a faint line, in fact 3 faint lines
the next day, 2 negs

thursday. 1 faint line
then 1 neg

this morning, again a faint line, im due sunday,

so there is hope lovely xx

Hi Roisine. Dont give up hope hun, i am 48 and still hoping :-) think my time has run out now but if it gives you any hope, i fell pg at 45 and a half perfectly naturally. Sadly i mc but you have to be in it to win it! Good luck to you and hope that you will be pg again soon.

Goodluck emmyem, do let us know if you are pg, congrats if you are :-)
lots of love, bluebird xxxx

Hey, hang in there. i am 37 and expecting our second baby in June this year. Not been an easy pregnancy and a lively 6 year old means I am quite tired ( wonder if I would be as tired if I were younger ) but still hope to have more after this little one appears. If Madonna and Tess Daly and all those other celebs can do it - we can too.

Have you been to Holland & Barrett and looked at Agnus Castus and Dong Quai ? They are recommended for rebalancing hormones etc,, - my friend swears it helped her - they fell after a month.

Good luck !

Hi Roisine

Good luck and I have everything crossed for you, I am 38 and we are TTC, only been trying a month ( with our DS we got pregnant the first month of trying) and I am trying hard not to get too hung up on the whole thing, but I must admit last week I felt very odd and thought I was pregnant and did a test but it was a BFN, but AF has not arrived yet, so I have no idea what is going on,
Feel just the same as you, is 38 too old.....

Best wishes and let us all know how you are doing.

Lots of love

Dinky xx

its all true, i am indeed " with child" so honestly dont give up, it can happen

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thanks ladies, funny i feel more comfortable on this forum because i know a lot of us are around the same age and perhaps have kids already.good luck emmyem saw your post on ttc after mc.yeah i know im being a little hasty. the hospital did say it could take three months for womb to totally recover but they hadnt bargained on a very impatient patient lol.im such an ordered person it was a slap in the bum for things not to go the way i planned but im learning to be disordered now !!!!lol but but but my af due in 6 days and im tying my hands down not to test.my boobs could be sore due to pmt or.... oh would i ever shut up thanks again its great to just ramble sometimesxxxx

Ah! Congratulations Emmyem !!!

well so much for patience ,i tested this norning with a cheapie ,wasted my money last week ,im such a fruitcake sometimes but ive got the faint second line and ive looked a million times.but like that im nervous to say the three letters yet!!!! i put my first morning wee on standby since 6.30 this morning ,just tested a while ago. wonder if this old gal has done it too????? say a wee prayer im not going la laxxxxxgood luck ladies hope we get luckyxxxx

Congratulations Emmyem, that's wonderful news
lots of love, bluebird xxxx

Great news Emmyem. Julie x