HI girls.
i posted a week ago or so about me thinking i have been stitched up wrong as when i tried to have sex with hubby, he couldnt get in again. i decided to leave it and try again with hubby as i might just have been tight from giving birth. We tried again a few days ago and he physically couldnt get in atall. it wouldnt stretch or anything. Hubby had a look and he said that they have stitched up part of my lady opening (TMI). after we tried my stitches really ached?? they do sometimes now also when i got for a number two, they hurt afterwards like the skin aches? its really strange.

i am so petrified to go to the doctors as i hate anyone fiddling down there (labour was diff) and scared they will have to cut me! :(

oh hun :( that doesnt sound nice. i Really feel for you because i would hate to have anybody peering at my lady bits again. And i think you're probably expecting this sweety, but the only way it can be fixed is by going to a doctor. You can always go and see one that you're familiar with and comfortable with, and you can ask to see a female if that would put you at ease. take your OH along with you too for support. You got through pregnancy and birth, and i'm positive you'd cope going to get things looked at. no doubt it would just take a few seconds for the doc to have a peek. Be brave honey or you'll regret it later on XX