Hi everyone,

Hope you are all doing ok. we lost our baby in June this year, went for our 12 week scan and found the baby had stopped growing at 6 weeks, had no indication, no pain or bleeding. Had to have an erpc. Been trying since i got over that and last week started getting really sore boobs, and i just thought the last time it was like this was when i was pregnant before!! did a test last thursday and there it was two lines!!

Me and my husband are really happy, it will be our first. The trouble is i am just over 6 weeks now and i am so scared. Went to my doc last week to see if i could have an early scan and he said he would organise me to go to the early pregnancy unit to do tests, as he feels a scan wont help. I just dont really know what sort of tests they do, i dont want to have to have an internal, had enough of those last time.

Its just the thought of having to go through what i went through last time, i know i have to stay positive but its hard isnt it?!!

Take care
Amber xxxx

Hey Amber

First of all many many congrats for your BFP!!!!

Secondly yes its bliddy hard to be positive at all which is why we all asked for this forum. Dont know about you but i get fed up with being paranoid all day and every day but there really isnt anythign any of us can do other than grin and bear it and wait for that blooming scan which is why being able to come on and chat like this is a godsend becuse that way we halve the stress!!!

Wishing you all the best for a happy healthy sticky pg

karen x

Hi Karen

Thankyou xx I know exactly what you mean, you find yourself thinking about it all day and looking out for things!! lol. Last night i was texting my sister all night saying i had this ache, and she just said its quite normal, but you worry about everything.

This forum is great, gives us chance to talk to others.

Take Care
Amber xxxx