hi my name is hannah i am a mum of 2 i am having my3 rd baby on the 8th dec by c section but back last tues my boyfriend walked away from me and have been seeing someone else i just feel so hurt.its like someone has took my world away.he has a child from another relationship that he dont see and told us all that wasnt his fault but we have since found out that he has done what he done to me.i just worry how i will feel about this baby will i cope

ah sorry 2 hear bout ur situation hon, must b really hard wen ur still pregnant aswell, he seems very gutless n heartless n i think u will b better off wiv out him if this is wot kind of person he is. i no hard at the mo n u feel u wont b able 2 cope but it does get better, n will make u such a strong person. Im sure u will love ur baby jus as much as ur other 2, they need u more then ever now n u need them. although its really hard, jus remember u have 2 gorgeous babies n 1 on the way, u r very lucky n if he doesnt wana b apart of that then it is his loss, im sure he will look back soon n realise wot a stupid mistake he made but u will b much stronger.
I hope it works out 4 u n u no where we all r if u wana chat, i posted on here 4 months ago wen
i found my partner chattin up other women on fb n i split wiv him but i am very happy now n have a lil girl that gets me by every day n u will feel the same soon! take care xx

what is it with men and face book i got told though that what he was really up to by the girls best friend but then when i told the truth on what he was like i was told they were happy and to leave them alone like i was in the wrong.he has hurt my 2 kids so much he came into there lives telling them he would never hurt there mummy and that he would be like a daddy to them.it is sick.i just want to be happy that i am having my little boy i n 2 weeks but i worry i wont bond

i can understand ur feeling that way, but im sure once u got ur lo in ur arms u will b absolutely fine. All u need is them at the mo n jus make sure u c ur friends n family as mine helped me thru it n helped a lot.
Facebook is known 4 ruining relationships, i still use it but jus always reminds me of wot i read on my exs inbox. Men that promise things like that 2 children n walk away r not worth it, its so wrong n it is not fair on the kids either xx

I understand your feelings too..you have been through alot and this should be a happy time with the support of your babies dad...unfortunately you dont have this and are feeling let down and sad so its natural you may be alittle unsure about things!but you will be fine...
As for FB yep my ex(babies dad) was the same chatting to exs and stuff on there,some men just cant help themselves and FB makes it oh so easy!

it just makes me so mad how he would that i would go on there and speake to friends and wouldn hide anything he has been on there chatting to god knows who behinde my back well i been in bed.:evil:i just worry about me and my baby how i will be i love him dont get me wrong but i dont want to take my angry of his dad out on him he never asked 4 any of this.

I know how you feel and I am sorry I can't give you any advice as I am still struggling with my ex having done the same thing and I worry that I won't be able to bond with my baby either but I am sure you! Again sorry that I can't give you any advice. I absolutely hate facebook to and can't forget what I read!

Sorry that was supposed to say I am sure you will bond, just give it time!

i just finding it so hard yes facebook is a nasty thing and is made 4 gutless men.

def agree wiv u there! xx