Hi Ashy, you naughty girl looking in the traumatic birth forum
remember that all births are different!
I copied this from the World Health Organisation website for you, its sounds a bit technical but you should get the jist of it!
Sometimes during childbirth you may tear without having an episiotomy.
Repair of vaginal and perineal tears
There are four degrees of tears that can occur during delivery:
First degree tears involve the vaginal mucosa and connective tissue.
Second degree tears involve the vaginal mucosa, connective tissue and underlying muscles.
Third degree tears involve complete transection of the anal sphincter.
Fourth degree tears involve the rectal mucosa.
When you have an episitomy you will be cut but you will be cut an angle so the cut is directed away from you bum so you'll have less chance of tearing near there.
Pls pls pls dont worry though just be prepared for the unexpected- you may have a wonderful 7hr labour with need for a bit of gas and air and give birth to a gorgeous 7lb baby. Good luck with the rest of your pregnancy and hope ive helped a bit xxx