I know this is probably the last thing many of us will be thinking about for a long while but am I wrong in wanting it already??

I gave birth 9 days ago and just a few days after I had given birth, I was thinking about sex already!

When I had my daughter, it was the last thing on my mind for a long time and I never thought I would want it again!

Me, my husband and friends with their babies met for lunch yesterday and we talked about age gaps between children. I told them that a friend had got pregnant 4 weeks after giving birth. One of the fathers said ''my god, I dont know any woman who would even be thinking about sex or even wanting a man near her for months afterwards!''

I went quiet and nodded in agreement but really didnt want to admit that I wasnt one of those women!!

am I the only one thinking about it??? tell me im not!!

hi dont worry, i did a post a couple of weeks back now when my baby was 12 days asking the exact same thing as me and hubbie had taken the plunge and done the deed for the 1st time in months. i had been extrmely horny since giving birth and felt the time was right for us. i got a lot of replies from the other girls. some who were still too sore but who also wanted to be having sex again. and a few who like me had also started having sex again. if you feel ready then go for it. im now back on the pill so as to ensure no lttle babies in the near future.

I had sex after 5weeks still felt a lil tender but was glad to of done the deed. Your friend that got preg after 4 weeks thats madness, did she keep the baby? was her bodie ok coping with a second child after just birthing the first lol xxx

You are not alone! i really want it we tried last night i found it a bit uncomfortable but not that bad but we stopped as josh woke up lol! xx