How do you no if you a good mum or not??
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Posted : Tue, 09 June 2009 20:06:02
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How do you no if you a good mum or not??
Im 19 and gave birth to my first child 3 weeks ago, i feel im a good mum as im a single mum it is hard but i am giving all i have to becoming the best mum i can be for her i have the love and support of my family and they are always there when i need them but some times i feel if i ask for help it makes me a bad mum that cant cope so my question is how do you no if your a good mum x
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whalemummy
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Posted : Sat, 04 July 2009 09:20:00
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How do you no if you a good mum or not??
You don't xxx Answer is if you can put smiles on their faces and love in their hearts, then you've done it right.
You can't fail at being a parent. To me failure is not an option!
It doesn't make you a bad mum to ask for help! In fact it probably makes you a better mum for not pushing yourself too far like i did! (Cue the violins...!)
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PS Congratultions! Being a mum is hard enough, but being a single mummy can be even harder! I'm 20 and Harry's 18months old. I just assume i'm a good mum! Just you wait an see. All the hard work pays off xxxx
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waiting4baby
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Posted : Sat, 04 July 2009 21:58:37
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How do you no if you a good mum or not??
I think everything whalemummy says is spot on and asking for help/advice is definitely a sign you care not that you don't
congratulations and enjoy. Being a mummy is the best job in the world
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~no2bump~
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Posted : Sun, 05 July 2009 13:08:00
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How do you no if you a good mum or not??
firstly congrats on the birth of your daughter and everything the other guys have said is right, you are a good mum by feeding, changing etc and makign your baby happy, thats all that matters, im sure your doing great! xxxxx
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codismum
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Posted : Fri, 10 July 2009 23:39:17
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How do you no if you a good mum or not??
I think you are doing a great job. Being a mum is hard enough, especially on your own. I was married and 36 when I had my 1st daughter and I was terrified!!!! As whalemummy said, as long as you have happy babies, you're doing evrything right!!!
Enjoy your new baby.
E xx
Take advan tage whe n people offer to help as well, you need a break too.
E njoy the fact that you hav e people who want to help you
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nealycollins
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Posted : Sat, 11 July 2009 15:14:39
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How do you no if you a good mum or not??
You're a good mum for asking for help and wanting the best for your daughter. Again, I agree with everything everyone else says. My son is 5 months old, he's happy and content so I assume I'm doing a good job! They soon let you know if they're not happy!! Enjoy everything xxx
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