Hi People!
Im a single muma! please dont judge me because of that, as my baby was planned and them 3weeks before my son was born his dad didnt want anything to do with us and now he has never seen his son or anything, He is now 8months old!

I was wondering if its too soon to move on with my life and start dating again? And how do I go about it! Its not like I can go out or anything without my son! Im not the type of person to just go out and leave my baby with anyone. he always comes first!!!
Is there any hope or am i going to be single forever??

hey hun x u wont b single 4eva hun x ive had a date since my ex left but things didnt work out :( but we met online, have u tried online dating?? or anything like that?? its hard gettin out wen u have a lo at home i knw i wont leave my lo wiv any 1 but my best friend or my dad!! and i hate leaving him and my friend haves him every other weekend just so i can have a break n tbh i just wanna be at home and chill but that also mite b bcoz im 36 weeks pregnant hehe!!

Hi hun
You have every right to move on if you feel it is the right time! Lo is 8 months now and i dont think it would have mattered if you had moved on before then, aslong as you felt ready to.
I split with my ex when lo was 3 months old, like you we were together for a long time but then ex decided to mess around and show his true colours. This was last august but we have been on and off saying we were going to get back together but something happened in march that made me realise i dont want him at all.
I am ready to move on but like you, i dont really get to go out anywhere to meet anyone and Lea is always with me!
I have had plenty of male friends i know on fb wanting to take me out and i did go for a date after xmas this year but i didnt feel he was right for me! You will meet the right person when the time is right. Its nice if you have a family member who could maybe babysit once in a while so you could get out? I dont really have anyone to babysit lo, sometimes her dad will have her but to akward for my family to have her! xx