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  • New dad feels neglected since the baby was born

  • Q: My partner doesn't have any time for me since we've had our baby - what can I do?

Steve Chalke, father of four and founder of Parentalk, says: 'Don't worry - it's common for couples to discover they have less time for each other after a baby is born, especially in the first few weeks.

'It's a natural maternal instinct for your partner to be preoccupied with your baby, so try not to take it personally!

Instead of feeling left out, join in so you can enjoy those early days together. The intensity of the first few weeks won't last forever, and very soon you'll be able to make time for each other again.

Supporting and loving your partner is the most important thing that you can do for your baby at this time.' 


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