How to keep our toddler in her own bed?

Psychologist Laverne replies: This is a common problem, but if you ignore it, you are giving your daughter the message it's fine for her to be there. Plus, the lack of sleep will take its toll, so it's worth nipping it in the bud now.

You will both need to be firm with your daughter, but it will lead to happier bedtimes for everyone.

First, support each other by taking it in turns to do your daughter's bedtime routine, with a story and cuddles. Then, when your daughter comes into your bed, as soon as you realise she's there return her to her own bed. Say very little, scoop her up gently and lead her back to her own bed.

You may have to do this a number of times but stand firm. Give lots of praise when she has a good night. A star chart is a good incentive for children of this age.

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