How can I help my baby learn to play?

Babies and toddlers seem to have more toys than ever before.

There's absolutely nothing wrong with wanting the best for your child, but before you rush out to buy the latest must-have play equipment, spend a moment thinking why play is really important for them.

Experts agree play is an essential part of our children's development.

Your baby will soon be up for some fun. She'll love playing games like peek-a-boo with you and will giggle if you play 'Round And Round The Garden Like A Teddy Bear' on her palm. Make sure that you and your partner share these special times as playing together helps you all get to know each other.

As your child gets older, playing with other kids is important. That's how they learn social skills and important lessons in life, such as making friends, sharing, taking turns and teamwork.

Surrounding our children with too many sophisticated toys can stifle their imagination, but surrounding them with other children all the time can cramp their style too. Just like us, sometimes they need space alone to think, work things out and dream.

Finally, remember that play should be fun and not too much like hard work for either you or your child. It's your chance to show them that you enjoy their company. That's worth more than all the toys in the world.

Steve Chalke is the founding director of parenting charity Parentalk. Call 020 7450 9073 for more information.

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